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analysis:No one prays for catastrophe, but what if it's one of the only things that will save you?

If the horror diagnosis of cancer can bring any good at all, then surely it is the moment to act and heal the rift that most sears you, writes Virginia Trioli.
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Couples in an Indian state could face jail time for not registering their relationship

The new civil code requires unmarried couples to register their relationships and bans polygamy, which some Indians say invades their privacy and erodes their religious freedoms.
India's Bharatiya Janata Party supporters celebrate after Uttarakhand state lawmakers passed a new civil code.

Could prison book clubs help combat Australia's domestic violence crisis?

A book teaching men to heal from their trauma will be given to domestic violence perpetrators in Australian prisons in an effort to lower rates of reoffending.
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Perfect Match helped them find each other 31 years ago. Now they're facing their greatest challenge

When George Isbester appeared on a 1980s television dating show, he never imagined it would later lead to him finding his wife on the other side of the world.
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From conversion therapy to community acceptance: Taking drag to rural Australia for a good cause

When Kymm Apostolides was a teenager and living in a small regional town, he was administered electric aversion therapy when he began wearing his sister's clothes. Fifty years later, he's a vital part of the mid-north community.
A drag queen wearing a rainbow tshirt sits and applied concealer in the mirror. 

Today is 'Dating Sunday' so if you're looking for love online, there are ways to protect yourself

Hitting the dating apps today, but hesitating because of a previous negative experience? App companies say don't be deterred, but do stand up for yourself when swiping right.
A woman using a phone.

Lee was at her lowest point when her friends came to the rescue. Now she's paying it forward

The Christmas and New Year period can be one of the loneliest and emotionally complicated times of the year. Here's how some people are reaching out to connect with each other.
A woman smiles and wears a tshirt saying Best Day Ever at a community event.

'This is the end of the relationship': The marriages under strain from long COVID

Long COVID is not just destroying people's health. Behind closed doors, in homes across Australia and abroad, it is irreversibly changing relationships — sometimes for the better, too often for worse.
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Classrooms go 'upstream' in the fight to tackle family and domestic violence

Beyond the crisis centres and police check-ups, work to teach children behaviour to help prevent family and domestic violence is underway in schools, and service providers say there is room to expand.
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'I might give my great-granddaughter a box of chocolates': As cost of living pressures bite, we look at how Christmas 1973 compares with this year

The cost-of-living crisis, Australia's changing demographics, and the greater mobility of the country's population mean the way we celebrate Christmas is now very different to how we did 50 years ago.
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When Max affirmed his gender a decade ago, he didn't expect changing bathrooms to bring so many insights

An "out-of-body experience" set Max Simensen on a course to changing his life and living authentically. He shares what he has learnt along the way.
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analysis:When you're on the 'wrong' side of club-ready, where do you go to dance?

This week, singer Jessie Ware re-lit the disco fire in my soul enough to make me want to go out dancing. But where? There's no dance scene for women my age anymore – and maybe it's been ever thus, writes Virginia Trioli.
English singer-songwriter, Jessie Ware

What brings happiness in old age? Researchers say it could be living with your daughter

Despite cultural preference for sons in some Asian societies, researchers from Monash University Malaysia found that living with daughters is positively associated with happiness in old age. 
A woman and man sit on a couch with a younger woman sitting in the middle of them

This family spent their house deposit on a family holiday. It changed their lives

When life wasn't quite working for Sydney parents of four Jodi and Daniel, they decided to take a road trip. It proved to be a life-changing act.
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Against a large red rock, a man and woman and four young children, wearing neat casual clothes, stand close together smiling.

How adults make it hard for young people to disclose they're in a violent relationship

One in three 18 to 19-year-olds in Australia has experienced intimate partner violence in the last 12 months. These young people's experiences show what might help.
Seen from behind, a young person with singlet and hair tied in bun sits on a bed in slightly dark room facing a large window.

Finding love away from the apps? Matchmakers report resurgence in art of sorting suitors

In some parts of regional Australia, old-school matchmakers are seeing an increase in clients searching for the one.   
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'Are you a spy or something?': When Sami Shah swiped right, he never believed he'd be dating a former hostage

Kylie Moore-Gilbert spent 804 days in an Iranian prison accused of being a spy. Sami Shah has been twice divorced. The pair never thought they’d find love again. Then they went on a dating app. 
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A man and woman stand in doorway with their young daughter and baby is held in the arms of her mother

analysis:When motherhood threw a grenade at my friendships, I tossed away some poor advice and found a new tribe

The friends I've made later in my life feel like a gift. Time speeds by when we are together, and yet I age backwards when I am with them, writes Virginia Trioli.
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Swapping bricks and mortar for a home on wheels, this Queensland couple is choosing homelessness

Kristy Bowman and Kevin Humphrey's move to a home on wheels is no #vanlife adventure — it's a heartbreaking decision made necessary by constant rent rises.
A man and a woman squeeze into the close sleeping quarters of a van with their small staffordshire terrier-cross.

Friendship blind dates and dinner with strangers: How to make friends as an adult

In a digitally connected world, one in three Australians still report feeling lonely. From dinner parties with strangers to pledging to have a blind "friendship date" every week for a year, these women are finding creative solutions when it comes to making new friends as an adult. 
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'It's about celebrating': Neurodiverse speed-dating sparks joy of human connection

Instead of shying away from the pitfalls of romance, Sam Martina organised a neurodiverse speed-dating night in his home town of Warrnambool to help others who might be on the same wavelength.
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Despite a 78-year age gap, Ken and Louis connected over their shared grief. Now they're firm friends

When Ken turned 94 in July, there was one birthday card that stood out to him — it was written by a teenager he met in a social experiment who he now counts as a close friend.
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Ken, on the left, and Louis, on the right, wearing white clothes covered in bright colours after doing a colour run

How an autism diagnosis at 51 saved Ash's marriage and transformed his career

When Ash Lindner was diagnosed with autism as an adult, he finally understood himself. Now his thriving "bike orphanage" business has become the perfect way to play to his strengths.
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'We all loved her': Former Married at First Sight relationship expert Trisha Stratford dies aged 72

Trisha Stratford, a relationship expert on the first seven seasons of the popular reality series Married at First Sight Australia, has died aged 72. 
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Dating apps threatened with regulation unless they improve safety

Popular online dating platforms are being threatened with greater government regulation unless they lift their standards and improve safety for users.
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